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Guy Talk
Spend timewithher family
Family is a very important part of life,
especially for a girl. If youwant to keep
your girl happy, be polite and caring
towards her family. Impressing her family
and having them feel comfortablewith
youwill make her happy and take the
burden of having to chose between them
or you away.
Spend timewith themand let themget
to know you as you get to know them. See-
ing the love you have for her family will go
a longway in bringing you two closer.
Ignore your phone
Nothing says, “You are not that impor-
tant” like taking a call fromsomeone
else or checking a text in themiddle of
a conversation. The current culture of
constant texting has gottenway out of
hand.
These days, toomanymen think it is
perfectly acceptable to take a phone call
or fire off an email while you are on a date
or in themiddle of a conversation. Here’s
the thing. It is very rude. When you are
talking to awoman, it would be amazing
if she got to see you silence your phone or
turn it off completely. It shows her she has
your undivided attention.
Surpriseher
Send flowers to her office, or take her out
for a surprise dinner. Get her some of her
favourite chocolates or shower products.
No gesture is too small and shewill love
you for it. Be unpredictable. These little
surprises will make her day, and that is not
a bad thing.
Ask for her advice
Women love feeling as though you are
opening up to them, trusting themand
asking for advice or even help. Asking her
for advice shows that you really trust her
opinion and judgement and that you do
not see yourself as being above needing
her help.
Do something she enjoys
Shoppingmight not be your idea of fun,
but itmay certainly be hers. Perhaps
she enjoys going to see up and coming
bands, whereas your scene ismore deep
house techno, but go alongwith her and,
if you have to, at least pretend that you
are enjoying yourself. Part of being in a
relationship is compromise and by joining
inwith some of her favorite things, you
might even find that you enjoy something
new too.